Swingers are groups of people who engage in sex with others outside their own relationships. A swinging couple will swap partners with other couples for their sexual enjoyment. In the 1970s, this practice was often referred to as “wife swapping.”

I have gone undercover into the world of swingers. Here are 6 things I learned about the swinger lifestyle. (more…)

These are the second two pages of a German children’s book about sex, and where babies come from. But in America, we’ve managed to remove all the sex from “sex education.” So to see that in other countries, the parents tell their children the truth, and show them what actually happens–how babies are actually made–we in the US think it odd, at best.

At worst, we condemn them as irresponsible, godless and rude. And so our national sexual health–starting with the round-about explanations and books from which we learn, at a young age–has deteriorated to sickening climate of black or white ideas–purity or porn. (more…)

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We all know the guys who KILL IT when it comes to women. Usually they’re not the tallest, richest or most handsome, but somehow they always wind up with attractive women. The simple reason is because they know something that most men don’t — they literally speak a different LANGUAGE when dealing with women. I call this language “Sexual Communication,â€? and learning to communicate sexually will put an end to your struggles with women FOREVER. Here are 10 secrets to the powerful language of sexual communication that you can start using with women right away.

Number 10: Spark attraction, NOT affection

Most guys try to CONVINCE a woman to feel attracted to them with such things as compliments and gifts, or hope that it will happen if they are just a “nice guy.â€? This almost never works. What they don’t understand is the difference between ATTRACTION and AFFECTION.

Attraction is a button that gets pushed, and it happens quickly or not at all. Affection is the feeling that you create when you act “nice.â€? Affection brings friendship, but attraction brings PASSION. When you learn how to communicate sexually with a woman, you will skip right over affection and make a woman feel deep ATTRACTION for you instead. There are no gifts, dinners or compliments required. Best of all, ALL MEN are born with the ability to communicate on this level. This skill is inside you right now, waiting for you to tap into it.

Number 9: Avoid being a “wussyâ€? (more…)

Tues. 9/18 – You Just Don’t Feel Like It
Wed. 9/19 – You’re Having Orgasmless Sex
Thurs. 9/20 – You Secretly Think Sex Is Dirty

Women’s magazines slip us the kind of information that we wouldn’t find elsewhere; they reveal a female perspective that most men just aren’t privy to. How they read into our behavior, how they perceive our actions, what their true expectations are… there’s plenty to be learned from a glimpse into the other side.

AskMen.com will be providing you with just this kind of gender intelligence — without the embarrassment that comes with retrieving it from your girlfriend’s magazine rack. We’ll be publishing a series of features from iVillage.com; articles originally written by women for women, but with insight that’s invaluable to men. Of course, in exchange, we had to offer up some intelligence of our own…all the more reason for you to get on the inside track as soon as you can.

You just don’t feel like it. (more…)