As men, we can do just about anything (except bleed for a week straight without dying) a woman can do. That doesn’t change the fact that warm, happy feelings are bound to happen when the woman in your life does something for you. Yes, BJs are included in that list of “somethings” but that’s not all I’m talking about. Since I’ve gotten into a sappy holiday mood, I feel inclined to lay out a few of the real reasons that we should take some time and let the ladies know we actually appreciate these “birds.” Check them out after the jump!

This week’s “He Said / She Said” addresses technology’s impact on cheating. Most cheaters yearn for a time when accessibility was toned way down; when there were only one or two ways to get in touch with someone – mail (as in the Post Office) or landline phone (as in I’m not home, I’m not taking your call). While there are more opportunities to cheat, there are also more ways to get caught. Read our take on technology’s effects on relationships then vote in our poll after the jump.

At what point does a guy call it quits when he finds out that the girl he’s hooking up with sucks at kissing? Or giving head? Or at sex in general? Contrary to what girls might think, that stuff actually matters to us guys. We can close our eyes and imagine that you look different than you really do, or think of our favorite Linkin Park song when your voice annoys us, but how are we supposed to get off when your actions physically turn us off? It’s almost impossible. Find out how we try to work with [and around] ‘The Worst Hookup In the World’ after the jump.

Girls asking questions, what else is new? Jokes aside, in last week’s He Said / She Said, we posed some questions to the ladies and received some great answers. Simultaneously, the girls at College Candy asked us a few things about how our awesome man-brains react to some of the things that they do or say. While usually we just ignore their questions (you would too if you had to explain a microwave eleven-million times), we felt obliged to give the girls a peek into what goes on in our head. Check out our answers to questions like “Is it a fear of commitment or are you just using the girl?”, “Do guys have underlying meanings to stuff they say?” and other questions that drive women crazy after the jump

Back in May, we posted on the 7 things guys don’t get about girls. True to form, College Candy responded with explanations for their behavior, which only further confused the matter. We thought we’d take another crack at the cross-gender serve and volley, this time issuing an exhaustive questionnaire that should cover all the bases. If we’ve left any out, let us know in the comments. Check ‘em out in our slideshow after the jump.

It ‘s kind of weird to apply rules to sex. If anything, sex should be a time to let loose and enjoy yourself. When you get hung up on the little stuff, that’s when you miss out on the bigger picture. But, everyone has their limits, their boundaries, their red flags, and their pet peeves. I once had a chick who was into scratching. I thought I was going to die. A friend of mine said his hook up wanted him to choke her. Another lady wanted to be tied up. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. But, if you want to consistently secure repeat business, you have to be somewhat mindful of your partner. What works for you might not work for her. Check out our take on sex etiquette after the jump.

It takes one smooth operator to pull off talkin’ dirty. The one time I tried wasn’t so bad, but it wasn’t anything ground-breaking. It was really just stating the facts, ma’am. You try to get creative with it and you end up with something like “My d*ck feels like corn”. Yeah, sure, it worked out for Dane Cook because his hook up was a pro, but 9 times out of 10 that quote’s like pulling the emergency brake. So, if you’re willing to take the plunge and let it all hang out, here are some key tips to keep in mind.

We’ve covered a sh*t ton of polarizing subjects in “He Said / She Said”, but I think this one might take the cake. I’ve legit argued with a group of girls over the term “hook up” (and every variation thereof) for hours on end with no amicable or mutual compromise in sight – other than it occurs with someone you’re NOT in a relationship with. We dudes tend to be more lenient with it, toss it around like a ‘bee. Chicks, though. Chicks take this sh*t seriously. So, how do the sexes define “hooking up”? Find out after the jump.

Last week, we showed you our top picks for the best places to have sex and embedded a poll asking you what your top pick would be. As of this article’s publication, 40% of you selected “On a balcony overlooking a city” far outpacing the second place vote getter “In an outdoor shower”, which collected 13% of the total vote. Of the “Other” write-in votes, “on a beach” and “in a car” were the most popular. Allow us to explain why those 2 and a handful of others are the worst in our slideshow after the jump.

A change of scenery would do you and your sex life good. The world’s a big place after all, it’d be a real pity to confine your sexual escapades to the bedroom. You’re going to have to keep your wits about you on this sexual safari and have an adventurous partner in crime (which she might just be, depending on your local indecency laws) but if you can manage both of those, you’ll be able to get down just about anywhere. Check out our list of the best places to have sex then vote in our poll after the jump.

When logical thinking gives way to passion, you’re quite likely to say something that seems, in retrospect, pretty stupid. And, occasionally these things will be a total mood killer. Everybody loves a bit of dirty talk, and self-censorship is only denying yourself pleasure, but remember – there’s another person involved in the entire thing. With that in mind, check out what dudes think are the six most devastating mood killers after the jump.

For the most part, dudes are visually driven beasts who enjoy stats, facts, numbers, and figures. Most chicks are more in tune with fashion and emotional values. So, it’s easy to see why there would be such disparity when rating the opposite sex between the genders. Just look at Hot or Not. The women always have lower ratings than the guys. Women tend to be more lenient and forgiving on physical looks, while dudes are ruthless, picking apart every single physical characteristic like vultures. Is she a b*tch? Who cares? She’s hot! Check out how we rate chicks after the jump.

In last week’s edition of “He Said / She Said” we revealed our favorite sex positions and asked you to vote for your favorite. Reverse Cowgirl won out with 35% of the vote. Among the votes for “other”, doggystyle dominated the fill-in nominations, which also included such gems as “The Abe Lincoln”, “The Jersey Turnpike”, “The Camel Crush”, “The Cockatocious”, “The Double Bow-Legged Sheep Herder”, and “The Hogtied Crotch Rocket”. We’ll try those out and get back to you. For now, let’s take a look at the absolute WORST sex positions. Check ‘em out and vote for the one that sucks the most after the jump.

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: Favorite Sex Positions.

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: 6 Things We ALMOST Like Better Than Sex. Let us know if we missed any in the comments section after the jump.