Ask A Chick is COED’s regular dating, sex, and relationship advice series in which our special lady friend, Charlsie, fearlessly fields your inquiries you’re too chickensh*t to ask your girlfriend, sister or mom. In this week’s edition, Charlsie responds to questions about how long foreplay should last, premature pet names, and over-texting. See her answers after the jump!

“Ask a Chick” is COED’s new feature in which our special lady friend, Charlsie, fearlessly fields your inquiries that you’re too chickensh*t to ask your girlfriend, sister, or mom. It’s no holds barred here, folks, she’s got the steel nerves to endure the grodiest of groan-inducing quandaries. In this week’s edition of “Ask A Chick”, Charlsie addresses dry girlfriends, how to get the most out of your digits, knowing when to say when when calling, and wondering why women hate it when you push her head down for oral sensations. See Charlsie’s advice after the jump!

We all love sex, and we all have the most awesome sex life ever, right? Yeah, right. No matter how great you think sex is, it can always get better. There’s nothing wrong with experimentation (as long as it doesn’t involve children or animals), so don’t be shy! When it comes to sex, there’s a whole world out there that most people don’t even bother to investigate. Silly, really, when you consider that the only thing you have to lose are your inhibitions! But what if the things that arouse you aren’t normally considered arousing? Welcome to the world of fetish!

So this might come as a huge shocker to you, BUT sometimes women don’t just want to jump right into sex. Crazy?! I know. They’re actually expecting a little bit more in the foreplay department and that’s why we’re stepping in and helping you out. But before you go diving head first (or however you plan on doing it) into foreplay, you need to figure out what she’s thinking about you.  And keep in mind, she’s already been clued into what you don’t want in bed, so all you need to do is sit back, relax, and make it worth it for her.

Hot on the heels of their latest hit release – Miss America – the Mississippi rockers known as Saving Abel decided to offer COED an exclusive. Not an unreleased track nor a typical interview, but something a little different. Members Jared Weeks, Jason Null, Scott Bartlett, Eric Taylor and Blake Dixon collectively put their own spin on what drives a woman “crazy” in bed. The key word here being “crazy”. You won’t find any of this advice in Cosmo, that’s for sure…

• Do women want foreplay?

• Guido life lessons

• Yogi Bear sends mixed messages

• Guess who is drunk…again

• World’s biggest Apple store

• She’s getting naked if she wins

• Life in a mental hospital

In case you get the wrong idea, this isn’t going to be one of those articles that tells you in disturbing detail how to find my G-spot or give me multiple orgasms. My goal here is to help you out with the other aspects of sex; minor details guys often dismiss as being unimportant and girls see as lavish, extended foreplay.

I am 22 years old. I tend to be attracted to older men. And still, I find myself hooking up with men who have absolutely no clue what they are doing in bed.
I don’t mean little things, like being unable to unzip my dress with one hand, or getting all tangled in the sheets forcing us to pause the action in order to perform a rescue. Those little things I can overlook.
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For women, sex isn't just about the actual sex. It's about the whole mind and body experience. To make us really want you, we suggest you follow a few tips.