You’re at the bar looking for a hot girl who looks like she wants to hook up, but not just a make out sesh followed by a phone number. You’re looking to meet a girl who’s just as devious as you are. Asking a girl if she’s into anal isn’t exactly the easiest thing to casually drop into conversation, though. You also know that some of the girls in this club have got to be totally into it, all you really need is a strategy to find them. In court, you might refer to what we’re discussing as “leading the witness”. PUA Training’s Head Coach Adam Lyons breaks it down after the jump.

To celebrate Hump Day, we’ve put together this XXX-mas gift guide intended for mature audiences only. The following is designed to help guide you or your lover in choosing the best sex toys and accessories on the market today. With so many websites and products to chose from, it’s all too easy to get lost and confused. Luckily for you sexual trailblazers, I’ve personally done all the hard work so you don’t have to. It doesn’t matter if she’s been naughty or nice, if you want to stuff more than her stocking this holiday season then I suggest you start taking notes and pay attention!

We all love sex, and we all have the most awesome sex life ever, right? Yeah, right. No matter how great you think sex is, it can always get better. There’s nothing wrong with experimentation (as long as it doesn’t involve children or animals), so don’t be shy! When it comes to sex, there’s a whole world out there that most people don’t even bother to investigate. Silly, really, when you consider that the only thing you have to lose are your inhibitions! But what if the things that arouse you aren’t normally considered arousing? Welcome to the world of fetish!

Everyone has things in their room that other people may find questionable or weird, and of course there is the question of what should be hidden and what is okay to keep in plain sight. However, some things shouldn’t be around at all — not for your parents to find, your frat brothers, your wannabe girlfriend, or anyone that visits to see. In fact, some things are better meant hidden in the depths of your room where no soul could ever find them — and some things, well … they shouldn’t be there in the first place.