What Your Sex Fantasies Say About You

We’ve all got sex fantasies. But what do the fantasies you dream about mean? Read below and find out that maybe you aren’t as weird as you (and your friends and family) think.

1: Class Mate/Co-worker
People you see everyday often pop up first when you scroll through your mental menu for masturbatory fodder. But one study found that 38 percent of guys feel guilty about these type of fantasies. Hooking up with a girl from class is easy work but unless Bar Rafaeli sits next to you, think about a stranger instead.

2: Group sex
Group sex can imply a few things. One, if you fantasize about this you may have an innate fear of rejection because in real life you can’t approcch so many lover so you leave it to imagination. Two, you may have a sexual appetite that can’t be satisfied in reality. Three, fantasizing about group sex could mean you crave lots of simulation and creativity – after all, you say, what good are two breasts if you can touch four?

3: Sex with an Ex
Based on a Maxim survey, 15 percent of men have thought about an ex during sex with someone else. It’s easy to conjour up images of a former girlfriend, but being able to picture her naked is often misinterpreterd as temptation to get back together. Remember: She’s an ex for a reason! Plus, if you tell your new partner about this all-too-common vision, she’ll become instantly insecure (or go berserk). Best to leave this fantasy in the rhelm, of, well, fantasy.

4: Public sex
Studies show that exhibitionism and low self-esteem go hand in hand, and fantasizing about sex on public beach or in a night club may mean you’re a shy person looking to be worthy of attention. In your fantasies you’re reverted as an outgoing stud-a far cry from timid voyeur you might be in real life. Just remember that you can’t get stage fright in a fantasy…

5: Bondage sex
Research in the Archives of Sexual Behavour shows roughly 13 percent of guys fantasize about being tied up. Do you enjoy the thought of ropes holding you downwhile a women has her way with you? If so, you may be a powermonger who secretly wants to submit. Better memorize that “safe word” backward and forward before you choose to act this one out…

From: Maxim “Expert Sex” October 2007