Comments on: Facebook/MySpace/AIM Cheating

By: Rob

Rob — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 21:57:48 +0000

To those who think its harmless. My wife started an affair with a guy she dated for only 2 weeks 10 YEARS AGO after being on Facebook for only a month. The sad thing is I even told her that Facebook was bad news because I know of 2 other relationships ( one marriage ) that ended because of Facebook. Sucks

By: Dialator

Dialator — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:29:35 +0000

I just ended a long term relationship with my girlfriend because she had made a new male friend on myspace, its unacceptable if your in a committed relationship to make new friends with members of the opposite sex online or off, messaging to me might as well have been phone calls; to me its the same thing.

By: Editor

Editor — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:19:31 +0000

This comment board is blown up! here my 2 sense. you can’t seriously understand relationship issues fully through technology alone… you are ridiculous if you assume you can. I will say tech can do a great job of making you paranoid tho because it is so one sided and details can be so skewed. to break it down if you trust the person you are with and there aren’t any other giant red flags waving to make you assume otherwise a simple sit down convo will go a long way.

By: Jay Iscariot

Jay Iscariot — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:05:15 +0000

Silly… everyone knows women can’t use computers!

By: Bobonuts

Bobonuts — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 18:56:21 +0000

Let’s not forget about other things too. Facebook isn’t all about sharing music and friends. What if your girl is out talking about sex with all kinds of strangers online? that would make me more than a little uncomfortable

By: Arthur

Arthur — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 18:44:05 +0000

Well I think it’s not cheating at all. I have some of my bestfriends on Facebook and some are females, it doesn’t mean I wanna sleep with’em all….But I can think about guys who have a low confidence level in their relationship to think that Facebook or MySpace are full of women and men willing to cheat on their sweethearts…

By: matt

matt — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 17:38:21 +0000

I agree these sites offer a window for a secret life. I know personally the harm of a supposed innocent chat with a lost love or someone with interest. It usually starts as hi how are you, and the negitive trats of each mate start to be told in the chats and then these conversations lead to emotional connection that lead to meeting. The sad part is, when the trust is broken and line crossed its hard to ever go back. One can forgiving, but NEVER forget.

By: SWAT

SWAT — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 17:33:29 +0000

I consider it semi cheating, basically its the gate to cheating, one thing leads to another. I just saw my girlfriends facebook, and I was surprised how many guys she has talked to. I feel semi cheated because she actually gave them her MSN her number and all that. Well whatever I consider it the gateway/key to cheating

By: Waste of Time

Waste of Time — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 17:30:29 +0000

Facebook/Myspace are time wasters. I had facebook. Deleted. It’s a joke. I keep in touch with my close friends via cell phone. I’m busy making money while my friends are busy worrying about what everyone has done to their facebook page today. I don’t think talking to another guy/girl on these sites is cheating, unless it get’s serious. I don’t necessarily agree with it though, because it only leads to no good. When I’m with a girl, I’m with her. I leave her no doubt or concern. I don’t call or hang out with other girls. Period. I dated a girl for

By: Waste of Time

Waste of Time — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 17:26:23 +0000

I also ended a ltr with a girl because I found out, via facebook, that she had cheated.