Is She Faking?

Is your girl faking it? If you suspect anything then try the faker test. Also, check out our two other stories in the faker series: “Is She a Faker? Here are Signs She’s Having an Orgasm!” and “More Signs She is Having an Orgasm.”

Fake Test
“If you want to know if she is faking it, try some experiments. Some easy ways to gauge her honesty is to do a thorough investigation. Whatever you do, don’t tell her what you’re doing. If she is faking, this gives her an unfair heads-up about your intentions.”

1. Ask her
“First off, be prepared for the truth. Then be prepared to do something about it if there is a problem.” “Have a frank and honest discussion with her about your sex life in a nonjudgmental way; she knows what she is doing and if she is a faker, she’s no doubt duly ashamed of herself. She probably won’t admit that she lied, but you can ignore that and just start working on how to give her some real orgasms. Don’t let her fool you anymore — do something constructive about it. It has been proven time and time again that partners who regularly communicate openly and honestly have the best sex. Don’t be the couple who loses out.”

2. Lie detector
“Ask her what the sex/stimulation feels like, and ask her to explain what happens to her body when she is having an orgasm. Use normal lie-detecting techniques (body language signals) to see if she is lying. Touching her mouth (covering her lies) and looking away as she speaks to you are some ways to tell. Obviously, these are not set in concrete, but if you ask her directly if she orgasms when you have sex and she looks away and says ‘Yes, of course, honey!’ then further investigation is in order.”

3. Ruin her orgasm
“This may seem cruel, but if she is really having one, she will be unhappy with you if you burst her bubble. If she isn’t actually having one or about to have one, nothing will happen and there will be no harm done. It is probably the easiest way to tell; you know her body and her responses, so test her. Make it interactive, and you’ll start getting the responses you want. “

4. Liar, Liar…
“The male ego is a fragile thing, so it is important in your investigations to put aside your ego and deal with the facts. If she has constant problems having an orgasm, she doesn’t need accusations; she probably just needs more quality foreplay. “

“The University of Chicago did a survey (“Sex in America,” 1994) which reported that less than one-third of females always orgasm during sex, compared to three-quarters of men. The survey also found these statistics changed quite significantly when a woman’s partner spent 21 minutes more on foreplay: 9/10 women always orgasmed with more foreplay. This stat says it all. “

“This situation can be difficult and embarrassing for you both, but it’s certainly not the end of the world – in fact, it’s probably just the beginning. Deal with it in a positive way, and you’ll both get positive results.”