Comments on: A Guide for Guys: Why Girls Fake It.

By: Jan

Jan — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 12:59:27 +0000

Regarding #2: yeah, the reason that she is the biggest sex fiend you know is because she is never satisfied and therefore always wants it. Believe me, I’ve been there, I know. I was with a guy who could not make me orgasm ever, therefore I was always horny. Basically, he just had no idea how to please me (other guys I was with before and since knew how to). This girls bf sounds like a typical douchebag. He doesn’t give a crap about her getting off because he is more interested in his own pleasure. If this girl could be with a guy who knew how to please her, I can guarantee that she would leave this guy in a heartbeat, because she would realize how much better sex can be when your lover is not selfish.

By: josie

josie — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:00:04 +0000

you know, i would have no problem telling a guy i was sleeping with that he’s not doing it right or that he could be doing something better.
the problem is, most of the time, even though there are so many of you guys commenting on how pathetic women are for not being honest, realistically it’s well known that often if we do say something, you will only cower up in a corner and sulk for the rest of the night… and to me, that’s way worse than a few fake moans and some spooning afterwards.

so maybe if you could take the criticism, we’d be more honest. try growing up a little, guys!

By: ryan h.

ryan h. — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 09:30:48 +0000

every girl should not fake it, that is pathetic. just for a man to feel he is great in bed by faking women’s orgasm is a huge NO – NO!!! girls that fake it are just teaching guys to perfect a POOR PERFORMANCE. every time you fake it, the guy thinks he has perform the right moves which in reality he did not! i suggest girls should be open to their partners so that they both could achieve the satisfaction of making love or having just plain sex. BEING HAPPY IS A CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE…

By: HoldOnThere

HoldOnThere — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 22:49:27 +0000

Your assumption that men are only in it for the finish is inaccurate. As a guy I enjoy sex even without the finish.

Another thing I’d like to fill women in on is that a guy can ejaculate without getting any enjoyment from it. There have been several girls I’ve been with that I got no enjoyment from even though I ejaculated. Many of my friends have had the same experience and none of us have ever told the girls we were with that the sex was bad or that we didn’t enjoy it and none of the girls seemed to have any suspicion we were only pretending to have enjoyed it.

Sorry girls but it’s a harsh world out there and the next time you have sex you might not be the only one pretending it was good.

By: Berty

Berty — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:51:06 +0000

If you think faking an orgasm is a big deal, try faking a relationship just to get a lay!

By: PhukingPhaker

PhukingPhaker — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 13:29:09 +0000

Whoah!! Casanova – don’t hold back now – tell us what you REALLY think!

By: Barnacles

Barnacles — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 01:55:49 +0000

When you fake you are conditioning your man to do the wrong things. He wants you to enjoy it.

Fake all you want but please don’t frame it like you’re doing men a favor.

By: Casanova

Casanova — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 15:57:46 +0000

This article just proves how fucking shallow most women today are. If women were true and honest with themselves, and their lovers, they’d ask them to change what they’re doing. Every woman I’ve ever been with has extended me that courtesy, and I’ve obliged happily, for the sake of her pleasure. The excuse of “we don’t want the man to feel inadequate” is a disgusting sleight on women, that they should have such low self esteem to start with is pathetic. Every time you “fake it”, you give a man positive reinforcement for the -wrong- things he’s doing. Is your self-esteem really so pathetically low, Lauren? That you have to PRETEND to enjoy it when a man is fucking you BADLY? Grow up, and take control of your sex life, you pathetic bitch. Women like you make me sick.

By: PublicService

PublicService — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:25:03 +0000

Well…

Faking it is bullshit. If you’re a woman who has to fake it, you’re sleeping with the wrong guy.

1) We don’t want you to feel inadequate.
Response: If we can’t get you off, we have every reason to feel inadequate.

2) It still feels fabulous.
Response: Fabulous does not equal orgasmic.

3) It is God-awful and it needs to stop.
Response: Then stop the act without faking and kick him out.

The problem with faking orgasms is that it tells the guy he is doing a good job. So, lets say your man has you 80% there, and you fake for one of the reasons above. Well, that is his stopping point from now on. He will only ever get you 80% there. I remember the days of not being able to get my Ex off. Well, all it took was a lot of research, and some ‘practice’ and now I realize that every girl CAN come. If a guy doesn’t understand how to totally please a woman, he doesn’t deserve a shot at it. Stop giving him the positive reinforcement he needs to continue his shitty sexual habits.

P.S. Tell your friend who ‘can never get off during intercourse’ to e-mail me. Or, her man can e-mail me and I’ll tell him what to do.

By: samantha

samantha — Sat, 01 Mar 2008 20:42:54 +0000

this is retarded- i don’t ever fake it! there’s no reason to! even if i’m really into the guy, i can still politely say that he can go ahead and finish because it’s just not gonna happen. also, i DO tell him what to do and make sure he knows when he’s doing it right. lack of communication in the bedroom is incredibly deleterious to relationships…