Guys and Masturbation

Your class got cancelled, so you decided to surprise your boyfriend by stopping by his room. A quick knock on the door, turn of the knob &#39 and a sky-high jump from your boyfriend. The crash of the latest issue of Playboy that just fell onto the floor was also a nice touch.

By COED Staff

A million thoughts are probably running through your head (not to mention his), and at the first is probably that he isn&#39t turned on by you anymore. But before you rush to this conclusion, try to realize what exactly masturbation means to guys.

Your boyfriend was in his room alone not just because you and his roommate were busy, but because he wanted privacy. Solo sex is totally different, and the time alone may be just what he needed.

And when he&#39s by himself, there&#39s no performance anxiety. He may just want to be pleasured without having to worry about being good in bed.

This doesn&#39t mean he wants to make you feel bad or unworthy, but he might need to let go of his anxieties, a time when personal space is all the more important. And Playboy helps him do that in about 12 seconds.

And don&#39t worry about that issue of Playboy too much, either. It&#39s not that he isn&#39t attracted to you any more; it&#39s just that the single page in the magazine enhances his privacy. After all, the paper doesn&#39t talk back.