I can`t help but wonder if someone actually wrote this thinking they are the masters of everything about sex and women, or if they picked up a decaying old teen magazine.

Welcome to the modern day experiment, where everything about what you look like and say in the first few seconds of meeting someone is what really counts. Men all around the world have various tastes in women, you stick to a set of rules then more often then not you are gonna be stuck home alone a few nights eating sweet buttered popcorn regretting the idiot you were with that guy and why it didn`t work out.

Making the first move = nothing.
And why should it be, unless you are eye sending signals, which on a personal level puts me off, here`s a thing to practice in front of a mirror (and this goes to both men and women) “hey” a simple greeting, that`s all it takes to get the snowball rolling. The key to this is to make it look casual and not like you are the clingy basement dweller psychopath.

Second Phase, find out who he is and talk about common interest, seriously a guy does not want to talk about where you bought your periwinkle glitter high heels. Show that you might actually have a brain (even if it is a lie) and above all keep it casual but not so much as if it looks like a business trip… actually that could be hot to, but only if you are seeing it as how I am right now…

…where was I, right… part 3, yeah I do have to agree with this step, but you can ask him out, no movies to obvious. But the idea is go out with your friends and invite him over, and don`t tell your friends you are into the guy, “friends are asses they will embarrass you and mess up your plans without thinking to much into their own actions, and don`t try to seem to superior around your friends, because that why you might look like a bitch (or douche) and you are back to popcorn and lonely movies. After the night out with your buddies try to get some alone time with the guy you like. Go to a bar have drink and now is a good time to flirt a little.

Sector D Sex, yes, by now you`ve known him for awhile and if all has gone well, you may still like the guy and he likes hanging out with you, you have come off as a safe intelligent person and hopefully so has he. So that being the case do it and do it good, make sure you know what you are doing and impress him.

No games no having to act sneaky, just a simple casually meet some guy or girl and casually go into a relationship.

Who cares if you talk about him to his friends, might even be helpful especially if the guy is shy! It'll give him more confidence to approach you about going out (which will definitely be needed if you're playing hard to get!).

I do agree with the last point about not sleeping with the guy though. I would lose respect for her and wonder who else she's slept with too.

ladies, just be yourselves.